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What Bad Days Look Like When You’re 20 Years Old
Something no one gets you ready for before it even happens in your 20s is bad days and hardships that mostly are natural and occur periodically to trigger healing and development.
Because we humans, we don’t necessarily learn only from experience and wisdom shared, not enough to change our decision and thought processes.
Of course, not everyone learns the same way.
Some people, like me, choose a mix between shared wisdom and experiences with their own curiosity for trying to discover themselves while knowing that the decisions might not be the best ones.
But before we dive into something deeper than decision-making processes, I’ll share some of my past experiences with bad days.
The First Steps (Childhood)
The most impactful bad days that I had in my childhood happened during my high-school years.
The love stories and dramas, the self-discovery process, the pressure of choosing the right university and therefore a career, the political drama from my country and city, and most importantly my parents, have directly and indirectly impacted my evolution during all of the 4 years of high-school.